I’m not talking about traffic statistics, comment volume, daily income from advertisements, but another problem that I have scarcely been talking about which is in direct relation to myself. My character and my kindness to other people. Where I try to play being the nicest guy to everyone out there. Helping everyone, even those who are not quiet close to me. I gave away domains, I gave away ECs, I helped people with their WordPress Migration but ended up with..
Nothing special, at least. A few remain thankful and keep hanging around this boring personality after their wish has been granted, others remain invisible towards my eye but start appearing when there’s again something that they need. My classmate who is also my crush for example, doesn’t responds to any of my text messages, but once she’s out of load, she keeps texting asking for load, and once I gave her some, my phone is silent again.
Could it be that I am too kind to other people? Well, that’s what my best friend said. I should change this personality of mine, but where and how should I start with? Stop giving away freebies? Stop contests? Stop visiting other blogs? I don’t know where I am heading to with this topic but I have to express myself just like I always do. Life is very unfair with me, because how much I’m try to have an even relation to the people around me, I always draw the shortr and become toe less respected one.
It sucks to be like me, to be asked doing things that you would never want to do, ending up being left alone once they get what they want from you. It’s hard to give stuff away when you know that the people are not going to be thankful for about your kindness.
I’m stuck in a common problem again, and I don’t know if I should pursue in helping other people. Especially those whom I’m not that close with. Being friendly to strangers or not so close people isn’t bad at all, I’ve met my close friend Graxxie through means like that and I’m happy to have met her. But there are several occasions where I deeply regret the kindness I offered… what do you think?
I have friends like that…
nangungutang.. pgkatapos.. nowehere to find..
i dont even know how in the world can they pay me.. O.o
but can’t help it… i used to call them friends..
and i want it to be that way… 😀
but the question goes like this:
~Why do you help anyway..? ^_^
~Were you expecting something in return..? 😛
you’re the only one that can answer that…
pero yung iba, abuso na talaga.. haiz… X_x
btw.. i linked u already in my two blogs..
enx fer the comment too on my pink blog… 😀
I forgot what our other blog is, did I add it already to my links?
It’s just parang, hindi thankful yung mga tinulungan namin sa past.
That, I believe is the perfect idiom to describe those people.
I suppose am not what of them, since you’ve also helped me in my WP migration?
And just earlier, we went to your house to ask help for Jenny’s blog and you eventually gave her one domain?
It’s not that I’m being an idiot in doing this, and foolish enough not to talk about it, but it sounds to me as though we’re one of the people you’re referring to with this article.
Pero na realize lang nko, this article was published prior to us asking for you help? So, hindi naman siguro kami? haha.
And so, why did I bother leaving a comment?
Na konsensya ko kay nagpadungog ka ganina na wala na koy comment-comment sa imong blog for the last 150 comments you have received, hehe.
At least, taas kog comment db? hahaha.
Good luck nalang Kev with more of your blogging endeavors!
Yup, this post was posted before you approached me.Hahays.
😀 life’s uncertain and so as friends. maiksi lng comment ko pero i hope tagos.
Life sucks at times when recognition is not given properly to people. But I thank you for helping me set up my blog and all the stuff circulating on it. ^____^ Keep your cool. Many blessings come to nice people.
P.S. I got my EC but I don’t know how to use it ahaha LOL
Many blessings come to nice people (sana) tama yan! haha
woot! comment mode ko karun.and this will be the very first site for today na mag-cocomment ako! especially that there’s something to comment about!Haha-i was suppose to see you late march at your house for WP migration right?You have really convinced me about migrating! really -and that’s something to be happy about- Unfortunately, I wasn’t able to come since I’ve got a bounty of tasks to do for my clearance!And if I have not mistaken!! that was the same time you had a problem about someone of your liking as stated above.
And if I did came, I’ll get not only the domain/premium template and all the engrossing stuff you’ve told me! but a friend as well.And this article will sound to me just like what Pat said.
I’m not saying we’re not friends.But knowing someone in person is something different.That’s something “life online” can’t equate.
yea.that sad to hear kuya..first pray to God and ask for guidance and he will surely help you how to solve this one 🙂