Dear Pinoy Teens,
Hi, I’m a 17 year old guy, residing inside the Philippine Archipelago; I’ve been living here in the Philippines since birth, and I am currently residing in the City of Davao. Simply call me, Gui. First of all, I’d like to thank everyone behind this project who are willing to help Teenagers with problems, just like me; in the best way they could. I’ve been Attending the Ateneo de Davao University for a couple of years already, met a lot of friends, enemies and a lover, whom we’ll gonna call, Nelie. She has been my girlfriend for about a year, until just a couple of weeks ago, in which her parents have decided to stay in a foreign country for the next years to come, as her father is a Australian Citizen.
I know she loves me, and I definitely love her too. But the problem is, I just cannot hold on any longer on how she’s approaching me, her character has changed, her whole personality has changed, I cannot recognize her anymore.
In the first few weeks that passed, we still texted and call each other frequently and chatted most of the time online. But that didn’t last long, as from time to time, she became busy and even more busier and I just don’t know what to do. It’s like, she has found someone new already, she isn’t answering my calls anymore at night, nor is she saying sorry the other day, it’s just like she hasn’t noticed my call every night for which I suspect she is hanging out with someone else.
This appears to be a silly little problem, but for me it is definitely a big one, and a hard one to take. I need some advices to help me out with this problem, I need some encouraging suggestions and words that will help me either move on or hold on, just like said.
Wishing for your loving help and support,
Gui, Davao City.
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Nyay, mukhang mahirap hirap ng konti ang problema ng ating letter sender ah! Ehehe.
Ahmm, seriously, from my point of view, I think he should move on, let his self get busy with other things, have some fun with friends and don’t think much about that girl, she’s definitely not the only girl in the world.
Here come I with my personal reaction for your problem Mr Gui,
like bes has said, you should go and enjoy the world, if possible look for someone else.
Oh, remember, nothing is impossible, if there’s the will, then there’s a way,
You just need to want to get over it, and for sure you’ll get over it in no time, trust me, it might be harder than you think, but you’ll feel a lot better after!